Reason To Be Happy.

Sometimes, when people think, "If I get this, I will be the most happy person on earth." What happens then? Well, if they get it, they would say, "Oh, this was easy to get, Now if I have this, I will be the most happy person." But the truth is, They can never really be happy with something, if they cant be without it. I mean, if tomorrow, I feel I want to get a new phone, and then I get it... I might be happy for a month at the most, and then I might just feel bored of it. If I really would want to value or love something, I can do it all the time! I can feel absolutely whatever I want to, whenever I want to!
 When sometimes I feel that I cant be with and be without him simultaneously, one of my friend, who is really great, and inspires me a lot, said that "You can be with him, sit right besides him and not feel anything at all for him, Or for that matter anyone." And the next minute when I started thinking about it, I was like... Wow..! That is the ultimate truth...!
Sometimes, I really wonder, that when you give so much importance to someone, and that person doesnt even bother to think about you, you feel so disturbed. Thinking, why cant the other person see that I am doing so much for him/her and that they have give me same kind of treatment. Well, I guess its always like, when you're giving importance to the other person, he/she enjoys it, and doesnt want to ruin any part of it. And if probably they start giving you back importance, they become less special. And then you realise that the other person is also just a normal human being!
When, they dont give you any rare treatment, you might not like it very much. Until once, when you may realise that you can lead a perfectly normal life even without their attention, and that they can live without you and so must you. And that is another time when you realise that the person is just another human being! I know this is funny, but that is how it is!
You can be perfectly happy with something and perfectly happy without something. But "Only if you want to" You can feel what ever you want to, the minute you think about all the burdens, responsibilities, desires, mistakes and people it would make you unhappy. But when you are traveling by the bus, and the cool breeze just blows across your face, and you feel happy, or when you're listening to the radio, and have your favorite song played and you cherish that particular moment. Or, may be when you are with the one you love, you dont think about what you've got to do the next day, or what mistake occurred yesterday, you just be there, live that moment. Love your life for each of such moments. Yes, life will be worthwhile.
Here, now, this moment is the most beautiful time in my life, and everything becomes so beautiful. People become nice, work becomes interesting, and you're so free and so happy, so loved. :)